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Tabby Ivy's avatar

"hundreds of pages of writing.... written in order for me to hear my own voice on the page." Oh my Tonys, that is why I paint, to see my own voice. Thank you for this wonderful essay.

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Tonya Morton's avatar

Thanks, Tabby. I'm so glad you know what that means. I think the need is something integral to art, or just to being human, which is maybe the same thing. Art is a way to explain, even just to ourselves, what it feels like to be our particular human self, with a particular voice and experiences and perspectives. No one else can paint that for you, or can write what your thoughts are, which makes the painting and the writing necessary.

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Russell Rowland's avatar

This is terrific, Tonya. Your thoughtful reflections on what it all means always resonate with me, and I'm especially glad you made the choice to not stay in a situation that was bringing such unhappiness into your world.

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Tonya Morton's avatar

Thanks so much, Russell.

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Jo Huber's avatar

Such a touching story, Tonya, thanks so much for sharing your innermost thoughts. That drive was more than worth it; especially as your sister revealed to you the very secret to her happy life and her own happiness.

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Jim conway's avatar

You really pay attention to the details of what is important about life and family.

And, Your essays are so well crafted.

Poignant and Beautiful.

Thank You !

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Tonya Morton's avatar

Thank you so much, Jim.

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Paul's avatar

Another beautifully written piece. Wry and wise. Not easy to do.

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Tonya Morton's avatar

Thank you!

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Cherie Rohn's avatar

Sounds cathartic, Tonya. Hope so...

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Tonya Morton's avatar

Thanks, Cherie. It was.

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Mark Dykeman's avatar

Beautiful, sad, but beautiful story. Hope all's well.

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Tonya Morton's avatar

Thank you, Mark.

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Tonya Morton's avatar

What a beautiful, thoughtful comment. Thank you so much, Connie.

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