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Sue Cauhape's avatar

It's weird how becoming an adult changes our whole relationship with holidays. We have to make it up as we go along. As a kid, I always had the tree, the ancient baubles, the lights along the eaves, the family gatherings at least while us kids were still home. Then I moved out of my parent's house and the cousins all got married and/or moved away. I didn't buy a tree or decorate until I got married and even then it was weirder than usual because Jeff and I were Baha'is and didn't "celebrate" Christmas. My in-laws were awkward about it as they'd give us tree ornaments as gifts. Of course, we always showed up, appetites in tow, for the family parties. The in-laws were nominally Catholics. In fact, a brother-in-law was Persian and in deference to his Muslim beginnings, hung a painting of Mohammad over the liquor bar. Actually, it was all rather amusing and well-meaning. Last night's party at my daughter's house, her husband and brother both received heirloom jewelry from their grandmother. The un-married brother got Grandpa's wedding band. I asked him and his girlfriend if he thought that was a hint. His SO laughed and said, "Everything is a hint these days." Families! They make life interesting. Merry Christmas, Paul.

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Tabby Ivy's avatar

all those past Christmas's show up today, don't they.

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